Some love stories start with childhood friendships. Some start through family introductions. And some begin with a bold Bumble message that simply says: “I’m visiting Chicago and looking for dinner recommendations… or maybe a local to show me around.” For Soni & Anuj, that confident message sparked a story that would take them from long-distance friendship to whirlwind romance, and eventually to a breathtaking wedding celebration.
Hosted at The Rockleigh—an elegant New Jersey estate and proud Platinum Guide venue—the celebration unfolded across multiple events that reflected the couple’s shared vision. Its grand architecture and manicured gardens provided the perfect backdrop for the sacred rituals that united their families. Planning and design were masterfully executed by the Detailed Affairs Team, a Platinum Guide member known for creating immersive South Asian celebrations. From the earliest mood boards to the final candlelit reception, the team worked closely with the couple to translate their ideas into a cohesive multi-day experience. Each event carried its own atmosphere and personality.
The Mehendi embraced the theme of Intimate Connections, a moment for reflection, blessings, and reconnection with loved ones. The Haldi transformed into an Elevated Backyard Party, filled with playful games, impromptu dancing, and the kind of joyful chaos that only family gatherings can create. The Sangeet, held at the Marriott Saddle Brook, brought the energy to another level with its Colorful Disco theme. The evening was filled with dazzling performances, vibrant décor, and nonstop dancing. In fact, Anuj—who once claimed he wasn’t much of a dancer—ended up surprising everyone. The couple spent months choreographing and practicing over eleven dance routines with friends and family, turning rehearsals into one of the most laughter-filled parts of wedding planning. When it came time for the wedding ceremony, the tone shifted beautifully into a Royal Affair.
Soni’s bridal look was a story in itself. Determined to be a red lehenga bride, she searched tirelessly through countless shades of crimson and maroon. Just when she began to question the vision, she discovered the one: a breathtaking lehenga blending hues of red, pink, orange, and gold in shimmering tissue fabric. The intricate embroidery and jewel tones captured everything she had imagined. Equally meaningful were the heirloom pieces she carried throughout the weekend. Throughout the events, she wore her mother’s wedding earrings and her late grandmother’s nose ring—a small but powerful reminder of the generations of women whose strength and love shaped her journey.
As evening fell, the celebration transitioned into a Twinkling Elegance reception, where ivory tones, lush greenery, and soft golden light created a romantic atmosphere. Music and lighting by M4U Events—another Platinum Guide member—transformed the ballroom into a vibrant celebration space, keeping the dance floor alive long into the night. Their ability to blend traditional Indian beats with contemporary hits ensured every guest, from the youngest cousins to the eldest relatives, found their rhythm.
John Martin Productions beautifully captured the essence of Soni & Anuj’s wedding through a refined and emotive photographic lens. Every image feels thoughtfully composed yet effortlessly natural, highlighting both the grand, celebratory moments and the quiet, intimate exchanges in between. From candid laughter shared among loved ones to stunning portraits that feel timeless and editorial, their work preserves the day with a sense of authenticity and elegance that allows the couple’s story to truly shine. Aperina Studios cinematography style feels cinematic yet intimate, preserving both the grandeur and the quiet emotional details that define a wedding weekend. From helicopter proposal memories to dance-floor celebrations, their lens captured a love story unfolding in real time.
What truly made Soni & Anuj’s wedding extraordinary wasn’t just the décor or the choreography—it was the feeling of togetherness. Guests traveled from across the world to celebrate, and by the end of the weekend, cousins who had never met were playing like lifelong friends, families were dancing together, and everyone felt the warmth of a union built on love, partnership, and joy.
How did you meet your Groom and when did you know he was "the one"?
I met Anuj when I was visiting Chicago from NYC for work. I happen to be the only one from my company at a conference, and I decided I didn’t want to have dinner alone, so I opened up Bumble, and we ended up matching! My first message to him was “Hey, I’m visiting Chicago and looking for dinner recommendations. It would be even better if you wanted to show me around as a local!” Both of us were tired of making pen pals on the app - you know the ones that talk but never meet - so asking him out worked in our favor!
After that initial weekend, we stayed in touch as friends because neither of us wanted to get into a long-distance relationship. In hindsight, this was a great time to get to know each other as people without the pressures of a relationship. I ended up visiting Chicago again a few months after our initial meeting, he asked me out again, and we decided to give it a shot because we developed a connection despite the distance. From there, it was a whirlwind of flights, video calls, family introductions, and a proposal within the year!
I knew he was the one when I saw him pour into me as much as I did into him, when he loved my family like his own, and when every day with him felt like something exciting was about to happen!
Share the scoop on your Proposal Story!
We planned a trip to Hawaii, jam-packed with things both of us wanted to do across the islands. One day, we were on the Big Island, and he kept getting phone calls. I just thought work was really busy. Turns out, he was coordinating with a helicopter company to get us a tour of the island and was asking for their support to help make the most magical proposal! Once in the helicopter, we landed at the base of a waterfall on a cliffside. Anuj walked me closer to the waterfall and got down on one knee! The pilot was in on it and secretly recorded the whole thing :)
Tell us how you went about planning your wedding, and your overall experience with the Venues, Hair & Makeup, Outfits, Decor Theme, and all of the other important details.
Anuj and I each had a few things we really wanted: a lush traditional ceremony, an elegant and romantic reception, amazing food, and events where our love for each other and our guests was apparent. We found an amazing team of vendors who took the time to understand our vision and helped us create the wedding of our dreams. Anuj grew up in India, and I grew up in America - it was very important for us to incorporate both these things in our wedding.
Our venue was The Rockleigh in New Jersey, one that I’d visited when we were planning my sister’s wedding. Due to the outbreak of COVID, her wedding was an intimate affair at a private residence, but my family always had this venue in the back of our minds. After we got engaged, it was only natural that we went there again, and we ended up getting the last Saturday date left in their calendar. After that, I used Maharani Weddings, Instagram, and personal recommendations for my mood boards and vendor shortlisting.
Each event had its own theme that helped us decide our clothing, accessories, venues, decor, and vendor needs.
Mehendi Mood: Intimate Connections - reconnect with family, blessings, and reflection
Haldi Mood: Elevated Backyard Party - games, impromptu dances, and celebration
Sangeet Mood: Colorful Disco - performances, garba, dance like no one’s watching
Wedding Mood: Royal Affair - lush florals, gold tones, candles, and warmth
Reception Mood: Twinkling Elegance - ivory tones, gold accents, lush greenery
How did you select your bridal lengha or wedding dress? Did you have a favorite color in mind?
I wanted to be a red lehenga bride so badly! At the start of my shopping, I didn’t entertain any other colors. But they kept falling flat on me, the reds were too bright and the maroons unseasonal. I tried a variety of embroidery, beadwork, and stone work, and nothing clicked. Just as I thought I would have to give up my red bridal dreams, I came across my lehenga - a redish, pinkish, orangeish, gold tissue lehenga with unique work - that elegantly combined everything I was looking for. And I got all the jewel tones in one dress, rather than just red. Once I saw it, I knew!
When we shopped for Anuj’s outfits, we did not want to be matchy. We wanted to be complimentary while respecting our individual styles, and I think we accomplished that!
What was the most enjoyable part of the planning process, and why?
The most enjoyable part of the planning process was building something together, taking each of our ideas and making it better.
What did your guests particularly love about your Wedding?
Our guests traveled from all over the world to celebrate. Both sides stayed in the same hotel, with the youngest generation playing with cousins they’ve never met, and family members practicing their Sangeet dances together. Everyone felt not only the love Anuj and I have for each other, but the love we have for all our family and friends.
Was there a really special moment in your wedding that constantly replays in your mind?
Stealing the shoes! In the middle of the ceremony, I realized my side never got Anuj’s shoes since his groomsmen hid them so well. So when the ceremony was over, and his groomsmen revealed the shoes for Anuj to wear before leaving, my dad shot out of nowhere and pounced onto the shoes, grabbing them! It turned into the most entertaining wrestling match between my dad and Anuj’s brother, but we got them in the end!
Another moment was the amazing speeches at our reception, all heartfelt and beautiful. Most especially my mother, who didn’t leave a dry eye in the room!
For events other than your ceremony, please tell us as much as you would like about the decor, style, dances, and all the special details.
Anuj never considered himself a dancer, but no one would believe that after the wedding! We spent time choreographing and practicing over 11 dances between the two of us and with other groups. The most laughs we had during wedding planning were practicing our dances!
Do you have any words of wisdom for Brides-To-Be?
Connect with your fiancé throughout the planning process and the wedding, both of you have dreamed of finding each other, and now it’s finally time to announce it to all! Add your special touches and make it your own.
Anything else you want to tell us? We'd love to hear all about your other details! (jewelry, mehndi, venue, cake, bouquets, etc.)
I carried pieces from my family throughout the wedding. During my mehendi, I wore my mom’s wedding earrings. During the ceremony, I wore my late grandmother’s nose ring. These pieces kept me grounded and reminded me of the strong women I have come from.
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