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Share the scoop on your Proposal Story!
Our proposal story still makes me laugh because I truly had no idea what was coming. I had a huge medical school exam the following week, so I was fully in study mode. Months earlier, he had planned a garden hangout with my cousins and was unusually determined that I go. I kept trying to back out to study, but he insisted I needed to enjoy my time in medical school. He even guilt-trapped me into buying the tickets myself so I couldn’t cancel at the last minute, which, knowing me, worked perfectly. The week of, I texted him and my cousins saying I didn’t want to go anymore, but they all convinced me I had to. So I packed my study materials and went anyway. In the middle of what I thought was just a casual garden day, he proposed and completely caught me off guard. I instantly forgot about my exam and realized he had planned the sweetest surprise right under my very type A, schedule-obsessed nose.
How did you select your bridal lengha or wedding dress? Did you have a favorite color in mind?
I always knew that I wanted to incorporate the traditional aspect of red into my bridal lengha. I traveled to India with my family to shop for my lengha, and that experience was truly one for the books. Going from store to store, trying on different styles, fabrics, and embroidery, all while being surrounded by my loved ones, made it so special. Every time I stepped out in a new outfit, they were right there, giving their honest reactions and sharing in the excitement. When I tried on the one, I could tell from everyone’s faces that it was that exact dress that was for me.
What was the most enjoyable part of the planning process, and why?
The most enjoyable part of the planning process was getting to pick out every single detail exactly the way I envisioned it. Deciding between the decor, color palettes, invitations, flowers, and every little detail was super fulfilling for me. I’ve always had a Type A personality, so planning felt less like stress and more like purpose. It was truly amazing to have the full support of my family and my partner to make any decision that I wanted regarding whatever it was that I wanted.
Was there a really special moment in your wedding that constantly replays in your mind?
The moment that constantly replays in my mind isn’t just one specific moment, but the overwhelming feeling of being completely surrounded by the people who matter most to us. Family and close friendships have always been at the center of our lives, so having everyone together to witness the beginning of our marriage felt incredibly meaningful. That feeling of togetherness is what replays in my mind the most. It reminded us that our marriage isn’t just about the two of us and that it’s about the community that raised us, shaped us, and continues to stand beside us. And that made the day more special than we could have ever imagined.
Do you have any words of wisdom for Brides-To-Be?
If I could share any words of wisdom, it would be this: wedding planning is hard. It can be overwhelming, and at times it might even drive you a little crazy. There are so many decisions, opinions, timelines, and tiny details that can feel much bigger than they actually are. But once it’s over, you will genuinely miss it. The late-night planning conversations, the dress fittings, the family group chats, even the small stresses all become part of the story. It’s also so easy to argue over little things when emotions are high, and everyone cares deeply. Give each other grace and try not to get too heated with your loved ones. At the end of the day, the wedding is about love, and the people helping you plan it are the same people who will be standing beside you long after the day is over.
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