Experience the beauty of Mala & Anush’s big day—now unveiled on the Platinum Guide Blog!
How did you meet your Groom and when did you know he was "the one"?
We were introduced by my best friend, Shelly, and his brother Sachin. They were medical school classmates and good friends who brought their friends and family together often. One of those times, Anush, I crossed paths and stayed in touch...and the rest is history!
Share the scoop on your Proposal Story!
Anush was living in New York City, and I was visiting from Philadelphia for Memorial Day Weekend. We had our religious engagement a few weeks prior, so I had a feeling Anush had something big planned. However, when I came up on Friday, and we had a lowkey dinner, I thought it wasn't going to be the proposal weekend just yet...
The next morning, he asked me to meet him at his place before brunch with his friends. I came dressed in a casual brunch outfit, so I was surprised to see him in a blazer - he even hinted that I should change into something nicer, which he never does! Now I was a little suspicious, but New York does have upscale brunch spots, and his friends are quite fashion-forward, so I thought it could be a hint to meet those standards. I changed, and he came by in an Uber to head to brunch.
Then of course, Uber had car trouble...Anush seemed a bit stressed now. He called another Uber to take us to brunch, citing that his friends were already there and that we were running late. On a typical day, I am the one stressing about being late, and he would be the one staying calm and stress-free, so I was definitely surprised but again thought nothing of it.
We get to the rooftop and head upstairs - the hostess tells us our table is in the back corner and walks us through the restaurant past other diners. As we keep walking toward the back, some of the diners have their phones out and are smiling at us - I knew something was up! And of course, as we turned the corner, there was a MARRY ME sign and flowers set up in a secluded corner area with the NY skyline in the background! Anush, of course, got down on one knee while a photographer captured the perfect moment. Then we spent the rest of the long weekend checking out more of the city and sharing the great news with friends and family!
Tell us how you went about planning your wedding, and your overall experience with the Venues, Hair & Makeup, Outfits, Decor Theme, and all of the other important details.
I have been lucky enough to be a part of Dream Shaadi for 6 years - a wedding planning company based in the DC area and run by a good friend, Sumeet Bagai. Through my years of experience, I knew what priorities I had when it came to vendors and the types of personalities I wanted to work with for our big events. Since we had plenty of family in India, we had one large religious ceremony in Chennai, India and a fun 3-day party and reception in Cancun, Mexico. For a couple that loves to travel, we ended up having a double destination wedding/reception, and we were so, so lucky that Sumeet helped us plan everything.
For our Mexico celebration, we had 3 main events and picked 3 different types of themes for each. The first day was a welcome party, and we found a cool all-white outfit idea for Anush - so we built the theme around it! I also wore white (and gold), and we had the decor reflect white, black, and accents of gold/neutrals. Since we wore white, the guests could wear "bright" (colors) to make everything go together nicely.
How did you select your bridal lengha or wedding dress? Did you have a favorite color in mind?
My favorite color is blue -for my Indian wedding, my sari was a gorgeous blue one from Tulsi Silks. So for this epic celebration and vow ceremony, I got a custom outfit made with multiple shades of blue in it as well from Harshita Singhvi's Shades of Blue collection.
What was the most enjoyable part of the planning process, and why?
The weekly meetings with Sumeet, duh! Of course, other than that, I enjoyed working on "projects" with Anush, our brothers, our families, and select friends. For example, we planned themes and other details together as a couple, dances with the brothers/cousins, ceremony details with the parents, and so much more. We also liked both site visits and all of the dance practices - small moments that end up being like the "calm" before the actual moment. Sometimes dance practice also brought a lot of laughter and teamwork as we work on a common goal and get better and better with time. I'm also not a huge fan of trying on and shopping for clothes (neither is Anush) but we still had a nice time spending time with family on these tasks and taking breaks with yummy snacks and other activities when needed.
What did your guests particularly love about your Wedding?
Two things come to mind - 1) was the fun method of bringing people out to the middle of dance floor during the welcome party: we had our MC say custom rhymes that applied to a group of people (let's say guests who are at their first indian wedding or our high school friends) and then a song clip played indicating that those folks should come out and dance with us. It was a huge hit because people loved that they could identify with one or more of these special groups to us and spend a fun moment with us in the limelight 2)
Was there a really special moment in your wedding that constantly replays in your mind?
Our vows, of course - I had come up with some general topics to touch on when I said mine, including fun references to all of Anush's favorite things (NBA, Marvel) and things we liked to do together. Anush, on the other hand, blew me and everyone away, but came up with thoughtful, sweet words completely on the fly. The weather, view, and other details were also absolutely perfect during our Vow Ceremony, followed by the most gorgeous rooftop dinner event. On top of that, Sumeet was our talented "officiant", which was meaningful as he has been a big brother, mentor, friend, and planner to us over the years.
For events other than your ceremony, please tell us as much as you would like about the decor, style, dances, and all the special details.
Our reception evening was an homage to our love of travel and the various places we have lived, traveled together, and so on. Many of our friends and family also felt connected to these places, and we featured themed ways (like travel postcards!) to connect with us. During the reception, was also when our brothers gave fantastic speeches, our parents said some really nice words, and our best friends sealed the deal with fun memories from our past. Just like our cross-cultural upbringing of being Indian American and having such a diverse group of friends, our dances all featured English, Tamil, Spanish, and Hindi music (often mashed up), and everything came together in an epic fashion.
Do you have any words of wisdom for Brides-To-Be?
Get a planner! It doesn't matter if you are detail-oriented and have a vision - it's nice to just have another person or team on your side that understands your vision and vouches for your ideas when it comes to complex family-related decisions or dealing with vendor-related issues. As a couple, it's necessary to be in the moment and enjoy things instead of stressing out - so with a planning team handling things in the background, we were able to truly enjoy every moment! On top of that, a good planner just knows how to save you money and work with your budget at every stage. Highly recommend!
Anything else you want to tell us? We'd love to hear all about your other details! (jewelry, mehndi, venue, cake, bouquets, etc.)
We wanted to certainly shout out two vendors that were extra special to us - Dynasty AVE and Saptapadi Weddings. I have worked with Dynasty extensively through my time as a wedding coordinator, and so many of them have become good friends with us over the years. The other vendor, of course, is Saptapadi Weddings - I also had the privilege of working with them at several destination weddings - Federico, Poncho, and Hector have become such familiar, friendly faces that it was nice to have them at our Mexico events. They kept us relaxed and brought out the most beautiful moments through film and photography. Not only are both vendors our friends, but they are just amazing at what they do and go above and beyond all expectations.
Maharani brides, if you’re dreaming of a destination wedding, share this with your planner.